Think about your favorite and most admired coworkers, managers, and leaders. Why did you choose these people? Was it because they were great at doing data analysis? Maybe, but it’s more likely you enjoyed interacting with this person and appreciated how they did their jobs.
Was that one colleague always so excited to dive into a new project that they motivated others on the team? Did they always speak up at meetings to point out when someone else was being spoken over? Was that favorite boss always understanding of people’s lives outside of work? All of these speak to a person’s soft skills, and they’re vital to anybody’s career success.
In fact, they’re often just as important as hard skills when it comes to your job search—and overall career success.
- What are soft skills?
- What are the most in-demand soft skills employers are looking for in 2023?
- 50+ top soft skill examples
- How can you highlight your soft skills in a job search?
- FAQs about soft skills
What are soft skills?
“Soft skills are intangible attributes related to how you work,” says Muse career coach Jennifer Smith, founder of Flourish Careers. They’re the traits and qualities you possess that dictate how you’ll engage with others—also known as interpersonal skills—and how you’ll perform in the workplace.
You may be more familiar with hard skills, which are often based on specific knowledge like how to do a certain task or use a specific piece of technology, but “soft skills focus more on your actual behaviors or habits in work situations,” says Muse career coach Al Dea.
For example, are you always coming up with outside-the-box solutions and proposals? Can you give a presentation that makes everyone in the room sit up and pay attention? Do you always step in to help when someone on your team needs it? These are demonstrations of your soft skills—creativity, public speaking, and teamwork, respectively.
Soft skills are:
- More subjective than hard skills: Saying that you know how to prepare someone’s taxes or upload content using WordPress is fairly straightforward. Did the taxes get filed correctly? Is the content uploaded? Then you have those skills. But saying that you’re a good leader isn’t as clear-cut.
- More timeless than hard skills: “Many soft skills will continue to be needed for the foreseeable future even as the industry and market evolve,” Dea says. A lot of common tech tools, like those we use for social media or search engine optimization, didn’t even exist until recently—and neither did the hard skills that go with them, Dea says. And technologies will continue to evolve, meaning that the hard skills you need now might not be as important in five or 10 years. But working hard and being dependable are unlikely to ever go out of style.
- More transferable than hard skills: When you’re just starting out in your career or if you’re going through a career pivot—no matter how large—you may not be able to use all of the hard skills you honed in the past, but soft skills like communication and creativity can serve you in most jobs.
What are the most in-demand soft skills employers are looking for in 2023?
In May 2022, ZipRecruiter analyzed job listings across their site for the soft skills that appeared most often throughout 2021. According to that analysis, the soft skills that were most in demand are:
- Communication skills
- Customer service
- Time management skills
- Project management
- Analytical thinking
- Ability to work independently
- Interpersonal skills
- Problem-solving skills
- Attention to detail
Since every employer is going to write job descriptions and identify soft skills a bit differently, some of these skills overlap, but this list can still give you an idea of the soft skills employers want most right now.
Also note that while ZipRecruiter listed “compliance” as a soft skill, it’s more often a job function or a hard skill that means following (a.k.a. complying with) industry or legal standards. For example, an HR manager could be responsible for ensuring a company is in compliance with the ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act) when accommodating employees. If a job posting asks for “compliance” as a soft skill, that could be a red flag.
50+ top soft skill examples
Here are some of the most important types of soft skills and some examples of the individual skills that fall under each category. This list isn’t exhaustive, but you can use it to start thinking about which soft skills you have and which you’d like to develop further.
“Every job involves some types of communication,” Dea says. Having the ability to communicate effectively is vital for any role and can affect a number of experiences in the workplace—from how well you convey your expectations and how well you understand others’ expectations to whether or not you land that big account. Strong communication skills will mean fewer misunderstandings, clearer indications of progress toward goals, and better relationships with coworkers, among other benefits.
- Active listening
- Giving clear feedback
- Nonverbal communication
- Public speaking
- Verbal communication
- Written communication
Don’t skip this section just because you aren’t a manager or senior-level employee. “You don’t need to be a leader to demonstrate leadership!” Dea says. Employees at any level can still demonstrate their leadership skills on projects and within their teams.
- Conflict management/resolution
- Giving and accepting feedback
- Motivating others
- Project management
- Relationship building
A big part of any job is solving problems, and not every problem has a clear-cut answer, Dea says. The ability to figure out how to approach new or particularly difficult problems is a key soft skill.
- Analytical thinking
- Critical thinking
- Risk management
Collaboration and teamwork skills
You need to know how to work with others toward a shared goal or objective. This can be as small as making sure a presentation gets done for a team meeting or as big as helping your company hit its goals for the quarter or year. These skills speak to your ability to effectively work as part of a team.
- Emotional intelligence
- Disability awareness
- Diversity awareness
- Trust and trustworthiness
Work ethic and work style skills
These soft skills relate to your particular approach to work. You’ll see that some of these traits and abilities are opposites of each other. That’s because there’s no one correct work style, and some work habits and personal qualities are better suited to different companies and work environments.
How can you highlight your soft skills in a job search?
Well, you should be paying attention, because these are soft skills that are crucial to the role you're applying for. So always review the job description, Smith says. Companies aren’t asking for a self-starter with great attention to detail for no reason. You can also “take a look at LinkedIn profiles for people who work at the company and see what skills they have,” Smith says. Or you can talk to people who already work in a position or at a company you’re interested in and ask them which soft skills are most vital to success.
How to highlight soft skills on your resume
While many job seekers think of their resume as the prime space to show off their hard skills, you should also make sure your soft skills shine. You might include your most important soft skills in a resume summary. You might even list the soft skills mentioned in or directly related to the job description in your skills section, Smith says, though Dea suggests only going this route if you have extra space.
But remember that anyone can say that they have strong leadership skills or problem-solving abilities. You have to show prospective employers how you’ve used your soft skills and what you’ve achieved. This means working your soft skills into your bullet points. For example, if you wanted to talk about your leadership skills, Smith suggests something like:
- Assumed leadership role for sales team with the lowest worker satisfaction survey results in the company. Motivated and engaged employees by encouraging feedback, holding a variety of team-building events, and celebrating top performers at weekly meetings, increasing positive sentiment by 34% in one year.
Or you can combine your soft and hard skills into one bullet point. For example:
- Collaborated with a team of 3 to conduct market research through one-on-one meetings with customers about their needs and concerns. Wrote clear and concise questions used by entire team and assigned tasks and tracked progress in Asana. Presented findings visualized with Tableau and made recommendations to senior staff.
For each of your resume bullets (which should be quantified and achievement-oriented) think, “Which of my soft skills helped me to accomplish this?” You might also choose action verbs (collaborated, led, presented, motivated) that speak to the appropriate soft skills, as in the examples above.
How to highlight soft skills in your cover letter
Cover letters are a great place to expand on your soft skills. Tell a story that explicitly mentions your experience with the soft skills in the job description to highlight your fit for the role, Smith says. So if a job description calls for someone with “excellent organizational skills” and you wanted to emphasize yours, you could say:
“When I started my current job as office manager for BubbleTech, supplies were stashed wherever there was room—I found Post-its in the kitchen and snacks in a cabinet over the printer! So I put my organizational skills to work, inventorying and rearranging all the supplies. I also sent around a Google Sheet that told everyone where they could find each item. In addition to checking the inventory weekly, I made sure my colleagues could note on that same Google Sheet when something was running low and I’d know to order more. As a result, BubbleTech stopped wasting money on extra supplies and never again found themselves completely out of any item when it was needed.”
How to highlight soft skills in a job interview
You can and should mention examples of how you’ve used your soft skills in your answers to interview questions. Think about which of your soft skills you want to emphasize before your interview, and come prepared with stories that show those skills in action. You can structure your answers using the STAR method to ensure that you include not only how you used your skills, but also what results they got.
How to highlight your soft skills throughout the hiring process
Your behavior before, during, and after each step of the application process will also show employers some of your soft skills firsthand, Smith says. For example, every email you send and each phone call, video meeting, and in-person interaction you have with someone at a company you’re interviewing with says something about your communication skills, Dea says.
Arriving on time for an interview is a given, but speaks to your dependability and time management skills. Being prepared with strong, inquisitive questions about the role will show the hiring manager how curious and proactive you are, and asking your interviewer questions about themselves and responding earnestly to their answers will show your empathy and active listening skills
FAQs about soft skills
Why are soft skills important?
“The way you get work done and interact with others is a critical component within the workplace,” Smith says, so soft skills are crucial to your success and reputation, no matter what your role or seniority level.
Think about a company you were part of or a team you were on that really got things done in a way that felt rewarding. Why was that? Sure, the individuals on the team probably had the hard skills to complete their work tasks, but that’s just the “what.” The “how” comes from soft skills. Maybe innovation and creativity flourished. Maybe communication was very open and direct without ever being harsh. Maybe the environment was very collaborative and individuals were never blamed for failures. Maybe the team had a great rapport. Soft skills make these things possible.
How can you improve your soft skills?
Because they’re not based on specific knowledge like hard skills, soft skills are often considered more difficult to learn or strengthen. And there’s a bit of truth to that, but that doesn’t mean you can’t develop your soft skills. Follow these steps:
- Establish where your soft skills stand now. Our experts suggest looking at past feedback from performance reviews and other sources and/or asking for current feedback; looking at your past and current work responsibilities and identifying which soft skills have helped you succeed in your job and which ones could have helped; or taking a skills assessment or quiz (like this, this, and this).
- Identify one or two areas you want to focus on first. Think about any areas where you’re often running into problems at work or repeatedly getting feedback on. These are probably the soft skills you want to start with. For example, do you always find yourself needing to re-explain what you wrote in an email? Maybe look into improving your writing skills.
- Practice. Smith recommends putting yourself in situations where you’ll have to stretch your soft skills, but start small. For example, do you struggle with public speaking? Maybe you can give a short presentation to your immediate team at an upcoming meeting. Are your leadership skills lacking? Volunteer to run point on a simple project. And whenever possible during your practice, ask for feedback.
- Consider taking a class. While online classes for soft skills are less common than classes on how to use a flashy new program, you can still find courses online that will help you with your interpersonal and other skills.
- Ask your network for help. “Find a mentor who is good at what you’re trying to improve and ask them to coach you,” Smith suggests. Or if you have a coworker who’s great at the soft skill you’re trying to work on, you might observe and evaluate what they do and think about how you can apply these strategies yourself, Dea says.