By now, I’m going to assume that you’re well-versed in those email etiquette basics. You know, things like always including a subject line and resisting the temptation to CC every single warm body in your office.
Yes, I’m going to give you the benefit of the doubt here. But, does that mean I think your messages are flawless? Absolutely not.
There are a few email sins that aren’t as oft-repeated—but are still just as cringe-worthy. And, chances are, you might just be guilty of committing them (hey, I’m right there with you!)—whether you were aware of it or not.
If you find yourself blushing at the mention of one of these faux pas? Well, my friend, your emails still have some room for improvement.
1. Playing “Hot Potato”
You pride yourself on being totally on top of your inbox—incoming messages never go long without a reply from you.
It’s great that you’re committed to being so responsive. But, it’s important that you also consider the quality of what you’re sending. Are your replies actually pushing the conversation forward? Or, are you firing off short (and perhaps even totally useless) messages in an effort to put the ball in the other person’s court and get yourself one step closer to that elusive inbox zero?
Oftentimes, people find that they’re falling into that latter category. Unfortunately, that frantic game of email hot potato is completely counterproductive.
How to Improve
I know the pressure to get back to people can be high, and I’m not trying to tell you to let messages linger unanswered.
Instead, if you’re not at a point where you can provide a high-quality response, send a short note stating that you’re looking into it and will get back with a more detailed answer as soon as you have it.
That step eliminates the pressure of needing to respond instantly, while still giving you time to devote adequate consideration to that message.
2. Showcasing Your Sense of Humor
Nobody wants to sound like a lifeless robot over email. And, trust me, I definitely appreciate those punny and off-the-wall notes that arrive in my inbox.
However, there’s no guarantee that other recipients will feel the same way. You need to remember that written messages lack the nonverbal and other context cues that typically help your humor to land.
So, it’s important to know your audience before peppering your email with what I’m sure is your stellar sense of humor. I’d be delighted with that great GIF of a dog in a party hat. Your board members? Maybe not so much.
How to Improve
Again, understanding your recipient is crucial here. But, if you feel even an inkling of doubt about how your funny joke or remark will be received, delete it.
You’re better off safe than sorry, and you can still be friendly and personable in your email—without the standup routine!
3. Rambling On and On
I know that this can seem like a fine line to walk. You hear so much chatter about those dreaded meetings that could’ve happened over email that it’s easy to feel pressured to avoid sit-downs at all costs.
But, this attempt to skip all face-to-face contact often results in some long-winded emails. Before you know it, you’ve cranked out a 3,000-word masterpiece that dives into ever single detail of that upcoming sales presentation. Spoiler alert: Nobody is going to read it.
How to Improve
Sometimes longer messages are unavoidable. In those cases, things like bullet points, short paragraphs, and subheads can help keep things organized and easy to digest.
But, considering that the ideal length is somewhere between 50 and 125 words, anything longer than that might warrant a meeting or a phone call.
4. Typing an Email You Wouldn’t Want Anybody Else to See
There’s a false sense of privacy that comes along with your inbox. You assume that the intended recipient will be the only one to see that snarky comment about your boss.
Listen very carefully: Not only is that rude, but it’s risky business. Whether it’s an eventual tech problem, a snoopy HR department, or even a gossipy co-worker, chances are good that your not-so-friendly remarks will eventually make it into the wrong hands or in front of the wrong eyeballs.
How to Improve
This one you just need to stop—cold turkey.
If you’re tempted to type something slightly off-color (even jokingly!) in your message, ask yourself this: What would your reaction be if somebody (such as your boss or another colleague) saw that comment?
If you get the slightest bit anxious at the thought, it’s time to hit the backspace key.
5. Being Married to Your Inbox
Alright, this last mistake doesn’t actually have anything to do with the content of the messages you’re sending. But, it’s still an important one to be aware of.
Again, wanting to actively manage your inbox is a great quality (all of those people with thousands of unread emails just hanging out are jealous of your commitment, I’m sure!). However, that doesn’t give you a free pass to keep your eyes glued to your phone in the middle of dinner, a meeting, a vacation, or a wedding (yes, I’ve seen it happen).
Not only is your compulsive inbox refreshing forcing you to miss out on real conversations and experiences , but it’s also really inconsiderate to the people you’re spending time with.
How to Improve
The answer here is simple: Put your phone away. I know, it seems impossible. But, as I learned in this experiment, it’s more than worth it.
Here’s the good news: All of these faux pas are things that you can resolve, provided you’re willing to learn and change your habits. You’re not destined for a life of being a total email screw-up.
Implement that advice (and, while you’re at it, brush up on these email etiquette basics!), and you’ll be well on your way to stepping up your email game another notch.
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Kat is a Midwest-based freelance writer, covering topics related to careers, self-development, and the freelance life. In addition to writing for The Muse, she's also the Career Editor for The Everygirl, a columnist for Inc., and a contributor all over the web. When she manages to escape from behind her computer screen, she's usually babying her rescued terrier mutt or continuing her search for the perfect taco. Say hi on Twitter @kat_boogaard or check out her website.More from this Author