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How to Have a Great Coffee Meeting—Guaranteed

Updated 6/19/2020
How to Have a Great Coffee Meeting—Guaranteed
Going to coffee with a very important person? Here's how to play it cool.

You’ve been admiring a particular professional for a really long time, you finally worked up the courage to say hi and ask her to coffee, and she surprisingly said yes! But now the panic sets in: How do you wow your role model without coming off as trying too hard or being a total stalker (especially after looking at her LinkedIn profile at least 10 times)?

Good news: We’ve scoured the web for the best resources to use when you’re asking and meeting an important professional contact for coffee. (It’s actually a pretty easy feat once you know what you’re doing.)

  • The hardest part of a coffee meeting is sending an email asking for one. Luckily, here’s a step-by-step breakdown of how to craft the best “Wanna grab coffee sometime?” message. (99U)
  • If you’re still having trouble putting together your email, here’s one really great example that only takes five sentences. (Lifehacker)
  • Having trouble grabbing a slot with someone who just seems super busy all the time? There are ways to get around even the most jam-packed schedules. (Forbes)
  • Ever wondered why meeting someone for coffee is the norm? Comedian Jerry Seinfeld breaks down this 21st century contraption. (Fast Company)
  • Entrepreneur and venture capitalist Mark Suster encourages people to take 50 coffee meetings. Find out why. (Both Sides of the Table)
  • If you’re worried that asking someone to coffee might be too informal, here’s why coffee metings are totally awesome. (LinkedIn)
  • The four secrets to a great coffee meeting? Don’t be awkward, stalk, don’t do it out of obligation, and make later plans. (Technori)
  • Lastly, have you ever considered just working in a “coffice?” (DailyWorth)



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Lily Herman is a New York-based writer and editor. In recent months, her work has been featured in Teen Vogue, Glamour, Refinery29, Cosmopolitan, TIME, Newsweek, Fast Company, and Mashable. You can check out her website, LinkedIn, and Twitter.
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